How Over-Spending Affects our Marriage Part I

My dear friend Brittany and I were sitting in my kitchen one day, laughing about our love for shopping, our
recent marriages, and our anxiety when our husbands' quiz us on our credit card purchases. (Sidenote: When Hubby sits me down to ask me about the credit card statement, I handle it in one of two ways:
1. I remove myself as quickly as possible: "I hear a baby crying," "I have to poop," "I forgot to tell you I am on my way out the door for something we urgently need or we will all die."
2. I ask him to go over it with me in the kitchen so I can finish making him the potato skins/nachos/something-wrapped-in-bacon I was just in the middle of whipping up.)
Anyways, Brittany told me this story about her friend, and I think about it often. Every since this gal- we'll call her Shelia- and her husband got married, Shelia had done the grocery shopping. And Shelia's husband must not have asked many questions, or perhaps had never bought any groceries himself, because Shelia purchased a $50 Nordstrom's gift card for herself every time she grocery shopped. Now we all know how this works, it's genius really, because when you purchase a different merchant's gift card from that display of cards near the check-out at the store, it all goes on the grocery bill. So Shelia's husband just thought groceries always cost their family $X...And he was none the wiser that she built up quite the shopping fund to spend when Nordstrom's Anniversary Sale rolled around each July. Brilliant! And also, very sneaky.


One of the reasons it was easy for me to decide to do this spending fast was all the ways I knew it would benefit my marriage. Hubby and I talk about money often. There are a few major aspect of how we relate to each other and our spending that we are starting to work on.

1. Deceit verses Honesty.




When we were first married, I worked at Von Maur. I shopped almost every day. It became second nature to leave my shopping bags in the car when I got home from work. I didn't feel like I was lying, it just felt easier than answering questions. It also didn't seem sneaky to store them under the bed in the guest room.

Now that we share credit cards (we pay them off in full each month, but are thinking about doing away with them all together... more on that to come) we hold one another accountable. There is a level of trust, and we don't grill each other on every purchase but if someone gets out of hand we can talk about it without making anyone feel guilty... because we both know we make mistakes.

2. Selfishness verses Generosity.


One trap we have fallen into in our marriage is trying to match each other's spending. For instance, if Hubby has purchased something expensive for hunting (the black hole of all hobbies), then I feel justified to purchase something equally expensive for myself. This leads to the inevitable argument that of course it's alright that I bought that ridiculously expensive pair of heels because you bought a new fishing pole... and it's okay that I buy lattes because you buy Gatorade... and it's okay that I bought a new sectional because you bought a new gun safe... and it can go on, and on, and on.

We have decided to become a team in our spending. I don't understand his obsession with all things hunting/hockey/ruining work boots and he doesn't understand my obsession with all things decorating/Whole Foods/clothes I see on Pinterest. So let's agree to disagree but also to move on and stop fighting over who gets to be the most selfish each month (he recently told me he is doing the spending fast too).

We are looking at ways we can be more generous. I have so much to say on this, I don't even know where to start. But it breaks my heart the billions of basic, human needs that go unmet every day. If we can give up a little to give to people who need it, done, done and done. I'm sure you feel the same way too. Not everyone needs to do a spending fast though, this is just where we're at.

There is a time for fast and a time for feast, and in the Van Iten household we have been feasting for far too long.

3. Anxiety verses Joy.



There is a lot of struggle to be found in marriage. Having kids has brought us closer together in ways I never thought possible. But it has also dramatically exposed our differences and the learning curve came sharp and quick. We struggle to spend time together, real quality time, and when we do, I don't want it to be spent arguing about money.

Also, I don't know about you, but I feel a great deal of anxiety when I spend more than I should. There are lots of reasons that is, but one is that I respect my husband and how hard he works to provide for us. I remember a little old lady shopping in my department when I worked retail, she passed up buying an expensive blouse saying, "No, my husband works too hard for me to spend money on that." Yikes. That is super convicting.

I want our money to bring us joy as a couple, not to be something we're enslaved to. Sometimes it seems like we give life to our money, letting it dictate what we do and don't do. We want to be able to enjoy life, one another, and what God has given us.

So I hope that if you're single, you can glean something from this (buy lots of things before you get married and someone makes you stop ;) and if you're married I would love to hear things that have helped you! We are definitely at the beginning of this journey and can use all the love and support we can get...

32 comments:

  1. I enjoyed reading your Blog. What caught my eye was your profile saying you are an ex Hoarder. I find most people are hoarders, and I always felt different. About five years ago I read an article about minimalism and after reading declared "I am a minimalist". As I look back on my life I always unknowingly practiced minimalism.
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    Keep up the good work. This is my favorite quote and words to live by: "The secret to happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more but in developing the capacity to enjoy less" ~Socrates

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  2. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story. I desperately need to go on a spending fast as well.

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  3. Ally, it's been way too long, hope you're doing well! So proud of you for spilling all your business on here, that takes guts! I was just telling Tyler the other day how hard it is to get boys(Andy) to understand how much it costs to be a girl. I have been 100% honest with him but it's definitely still hard to explain why it costs triple for basically any product or service I get and it does make me feel a little guilty. It's a work in progress at this point.... Looking forward to following your journey.

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  17. Hello I am Felix ,I am from Montreal Canada i am out here to spread this good news to the entire globe on how I got my ex lover girlfriend back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another man over two years, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to a spell caster Dr odudu the great messenger to the oracle of odudu that he serves VIA: oduduspell@gmail.com I narrated my problem to Dr about how my ex lover left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was done,in less than 48 hours,My love jane called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and she came in search of me we reconciled for good it was like a dream to me, after 5 days ,I was called for an interview in my desired company where i submitted application over one year for work as a supervisor..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire globe to contact Dr odudu at the following email address and get all your problem solved..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him via: oduduspell@gmail.com or call +2348051913076 and get your problems solved like me.

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  18. Hello every body am here to testify about what Dr odudu has done in my life, i married for 7 years no issues and i cried every day of my life when i see kids playing around their parents, and at the same time i was having issues with my husband. my husband break up with me because i could not give him a child, when i contact Dr odudu he make me understand that is going to get it solve for me in a short period of time. Dr odudu does some thing that amaze me by causing problem between my husband and his girl friend which lead to total break up and after that my husband came back home. and before my husband came back home Dr odudu cast breaking of bareness in my life immediately my husband came back home we meet as husband and wife that is how i get pregnant and i give birth to a bouncing baby boy. since them me and my husband are leaving a happy life. contact Dr odudu on oduduspell@gmail.com or call +2348051913076 or wasap the same number immediately and you will get urgent reply from him. if you want your happiness back or you are having relationship issues the door is open contact him now for your happiness to be restored back to you.
    Email address: oduduspell@gmail.com
    phone number: +2348051913076
    wasap number +2348051913076
    good luck as you contact the solution center for you happiness to be restored
    am Mabel Zonee from USA

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  19. I never believed in spell casting, but After 6 years of dating, I still imagine how Dr Aza brought my ex lover back to me in just 24 hour. No one could have ever made me believe that there is a real spell caster that really work. am sandra by name,I want to quickly tell the world that there is a real on line spell caster that is powerful and genuine, His name is Dr Aza, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship when my ex lover who left me, When i contacted Dr Aza he cast a love spell for me and my ex lover who said he doesn't have anything to do with me again, he called me and started begging me. he is back now with so much love and caring. today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the powers of bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my lover,and the most surprise,is that our love is very strong,every day is happiness and joy. and there is nothing like been with the man you love.i am so happy my love is back to me with the help of Dr.Aza if you have similar problem i will advice you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face. his email: azaspellcaster@gmail.com or you can whatsApp his line:+2348107155060 or see more at http://azaspellcaster.wixsite.com/spell-caster

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  20. I feel so blessed again in my marriage after Doctor Oku brought back my husband that separated with me for good 3 mounths. Am Jessica Butler by name from USA. Even though i have mouths all over my body, it won't be enough to thank Doctor Oku for his help upon my life. My husband separated with me for the 3 months and have been in pains and agony without him. So, i searched for help everywhere but nothing worked out not until i meant Doctor Oku who i contacted online. I explained my situation to him and he promised that my husband will get back to me within 24 to 48 hours as far that my heart still beats for him. I believed in him and he prepared a spell for me and my husband called me exactly when Doctor Oku said. He pleaded and said he needs me back and now we are living happily again for the past 9 months. Everyone out there reading my article that needs help should contact him. Email: okutemple@gmail.com or add him on whasapp +2347053113465

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  21. I feel so blessed again in my marriage after Doctor Oku brought back my husband that separated with me for good 3 mounths. Am Jessica Butler by name from USA. Even though i have mouths all over my body, it won't be enough to thank Doctor Oku for his help upon my life. My husband separated with me for the 3 months and have been in pains and agony without him. So, i searched for help everywhere but nothing worked out not until i meant Doctor Oku who i contacted online. I explained my situation to him and he promised that my husband will get back to me within 24 to 48 hours as far that my heart still beats for him. I believed in him and he prepared a spell for me and my husband called me exactly when Doctor Oku said. He pleaded and said he needs me back and now we are living happily again for the past 9 months. Everyone out there reading my article that needs help should contact him. Email: okutemple@gmail.com or add him on whasapp +2347053113465

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  22. THIS IS NOT A JOKE. TRUST GREAT DR KUMAR. My names are Gina Tom from United States. Great Dr Kumar is really powerful and knows how to do his job perfectly. If not for him i could not imagine what would have happened. My ex was always picking up an argument with me and was always beating me. He started acting strange and funny and left me for no cause for another girl. I thought all hope was gone. I searched for help on the internet and i came across Great Dr Kumar. I saw so many testimonies about him. I was delighted and i contacted him on his email and told him what was going on. He laughed and assured me to calm down that he will help me and that my ex will come back begging me. He did his work and cast the spell for me and in 3 days time, my ex came apologizing just as he told me. Today we both live together and we are even more in love than how we use to be before he left. Contact the Great Dr Kumar for your own help. You can contact him on: drkumartemple@yahoo.com and his website is:
    https://drkumartemple.wixsite.com/dr-kumar

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  23. My name is Alicia,from UK.I contacted Mr. Femi okuns, after wasting time on other so called witches & spell-casters. I spent thousands of dollars with no results. Up to the point where I contacted via email: homeofspells.247@gmail.com I had No contact with my lost love,my husband whom he helped to bring back to me permanently.I realized Dr was special, because,the day and moment i sent our details,He asked me to call my husband, after two months of No contact at all.from that point,everything changed,now my husband is back to me.
    Mr. Femi has since cast 3 different spells for my friends and all are working fine.the days whilst he is performing the spells, He is there, as he says on his site 24/7. I live in the UK, and the time difference makes it difficult to keep in touch within reasonable hours, but he is always willing to listen and cast spells.
    I am confident that the results you wish for will manifest when you contact Mr. Femi okuns,via email: homeofspells.247@gmail.com . I want to share my testimony he is more than a wizard, he is a friend, mentor and spiritual spell-caster

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  24. Are you suffering in your marriage or relationship and you need help urgently to solve your long awaited marriage problems contact Dr. ikhine spell through email agbadado@gmail.com for your help now also call/WhatsApp +2348056932230 for quick response

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  25. HE IS SPECIALIZE IN THE THE FOLLOWING SPELL.

    (1) If you want your ex back.
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    (10) if you want to stop your divorce.
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    (13) Pregnancy spell to conceive baby
    (14) Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
    (15) Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart.
    (16) if you have any sickness like ( H I V ), (CANCER) or any sickness.
    once again make sure you contact him if you have any problem he will help you. his email address is (papalspelltemple@gmail.com) contact him immediately

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  26. HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK PERMANENTLY,DO NOT CRY ANYMORE CONTACT THIS POWERFUL SPELL CASTER OGUDUSPELLTEMPLE@YAHOO.COM

    How to get your ex back permanently? Is this what you are asking yourself? Have you been dumped? Can't you just move on? Did he/she chose someone else over you? Your lover shows no interest in you anymore? You might have been asking yourself how to get your ex lover back permanently and you have been looking for unanswered questions about it, Well today is the day for your worries to be eliminated for good. Dr Ogudu have assisted me in getting my ex lover back,Are you going through emotional torture contact him now so he can use his birth gift of casting strong love spells and his super natural magical powers that mean no harm but motivated by peace, wellness and love. The fact that you ask how to get your lover back permanently is the reason why you should no longer face sorrow on your own, and that is because you are in a perfect condition to win over your ex lover and make him or her fall in love with you all over again. It is a great pain to be in love with someone who does not show the same affection back to you as you hope for. However, it is never too late to have all that you wish for and deserve in a lover. Love spells by (DR OGUDU) are pure nature of magic, they are inspired by true mystery of the beauty of the planet earth and they will do well for you as well. CONTACT HIM NOW AND BE HAPPY AGAIN""""Email [OGUDUSPELLTEMPLE@YAHOO.COM] Whatsapp number +2348106058254 Website...http://oguduspelltemple.wixsite.com/drogudu
    Do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster

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  27. I am Lord Ogbomola the high chief of Ogbomola palace, am a great herbalist and powerful spell caster with the great powers to get ex back, make people love you, win cases, get attracted to someone, get financial help and so many others.
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